Comments for No More Sugar Daddies http://nomoresugardaddies.wordpress.com I had been waiting for this day to come. The day he (Mr. Money) would no longer provide a roof over my head, fancy trips around the world and expensive gifts. But most of all I had been waiting for the day when the abuse would stop. No more controlling behavior, volatile outbursts, or sexual insults. Today my freedom came. Sat, 07 Nov 2009 14:32:34 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on Who is Ms. Reformed SugarBaby? by d.d. http://nomoresugardaddies.wordpress.com/about/#comment-118 d.d. Sat, 07 Nov 2009 14:32:34 +0000 #comment-118 Any chance you'll be updating your blog soon? Any chance you’ll be updating your blog soon?

]]> Comment on Starting From Scratch by eyeswideshut http://nomoresugardaddies.wordpress.com/2008/10/24/starting-from-scratch/#comment-113 eyeswideshut Tue, 27 Oct 2009 19:16:21 +0000 http://nomoresugardaddies.wordpress.com/?p=3#comment-113 It was like music to my ears to find your blog, not because I enjoy your pain, but that I find relief in knowing that I'm not crazy for feeling the way I do while going through the EXACTt same situation. I found it by googling " starting from scratch" to find advice and inspiration on how to cope with starting over. I wish you the best and look forward to hearing about your progression. It was like music to my ears to find your blog, not because I enjoy your pain, but that I find relief in knowing that I’m not crazy for feeling the way I do while going through the EXACTt same situation. I found it by googling ” starting from scratch” to find advice and inspiration on how to cope with starting over. I wish you the best and look forward to hearing about your progression.

]]> Comment on Who is Ms. Reformed SugarBaby? by nomoresugardaddies http://nomoresugardaddies.wordpress.com/about/#comment-65 nomoresugardaddies Sat, 02 May 2009 02:09:42 +0000 #comment-65 Hi Adriana!   So sorry about getting back to you so late.  I would love to be interviewed.  What is the piece your working on? Let me know a good phone time for you.  I'm on the east coast so I am 3 hours ahead.   Love & Light   Ms. RS Hi Adriana!
 
So sorry about getting back to you so late.  I would love to be interviewed.  What is the piece your working on? Let me know a good phone time for you.  I’m on the east coast so I am 3 hours ahead.
 
Love & Light
 
Ms. RS

]]> Comment on Ask The Hard Questions by Damaria Senne http://nomoresugardaddies.wordpress.com/2009/03/15/ask-the-hard-questions/#comment-64 Damaria Senne Tue, 21 Apr 2009 13:12:09 +0000 http://nomoresugardaddies.wordpress.com/?p=48#comment-64 @Julietta - your story sounds so sad to me. I think mostly because you sounds resigned to a life of scheduled sex and Mr Jack's view of who you. I'll come visit your blog. Want to hear more. @Julietta – your story sounds so sad to me. I think mostly because you sounds resigned to a life of scheduled sex and Mr Jack’s view of who you. I’ll come visit your blog. Want to hear more.

]]> Comment on Who is Ms. Reformed SugarBaby? by Damaria Senne http://nomoresugardaddies.wordpress.com/about/#comment-63 Damaria Senne Tue, 21 Apr 2009 12:50:47 +0000 #comment-63 This is a story that's worth telling. Thanks for telling it. I have included your blog in the blogroll of the OneLove campaign, because one of the issues that comes up is the sugar daddy/sugar-mama relationship. This is a story that’s worth telling. Thanks for telling it. I have included your blog in the blogroll of the OneLove campaign, because one of the issues that comes up is the sugar daddy/sugar-mama relationship.

]]> Comment on Who is Ms. Reformed SugarBaby? by Adriana M. http://nomoresugardaddies.wordpress.com/about/#comment-62 Adriana M. Tue, 21 Apr 2009 02:29:38 +0000 #comment-62 Hello, My name is Adriana Molina and I am a journalism major at UC Irvine in California. I'd love to interview you or depending where you are located even interview you in person. I think your story as a sugar baby is one that isn't told very often. I also think that the idea of a sugar daddy is appealing for multiple reasons but like any relationship, it has it's drawbacks, maybe even more so than other relationships. I'd like to chronicle your story from beginning to end if you'd be willing to talk to me. If you or anyone you know of is willing to talk to me please feel free to e-mail me at adrianamolina@yahoo.com. I look forward to reading more of your posts and wish you all the best. -Adriana M. Hello,

My name is Adriana Molina and I am a journalism major at UC Irvine in California. I’d love to interview you or depending where you are located even interview you in person. I think your story as a sugar baby is one that isn’t told very often. I also think that the idea of a sugar daddy is appealing for multiple reasons but like any relationship, it has it’s drawbacks, maybe even more so than other relationships. I’d like to chronicle your story from beginning to end if you’d be willing to talk to me.

If you or anyone you know of is willing to talk to me please feel free to e-mail me at adrianamolina@yahoo.com. I look forward to reading more of your posts and wish you all the best.

-Adriana M.

]]> Comment on Who is Ms. Reformed SugarBaby? by Julietta du Monde http://nomoresugardaddies.wordpress.com/about/#comment-61 Julietta du Monde Sun, 05 Apr 2009 13:26:26 +0000 #comment-61 I think as long as you know it is a short term thing from the start. Have goals. Treat him like a business proposition, only with daily/weekly contact requirements etc... If the business is not performing, get rid of it. I wish someone told me that years ago. I finally have my head screwed on, and making money out of it... and I have my own life... I have to get back to writing my blog as I am now 8 weeks overdue! Make money and go. Don't hang around. I think as long as you know it is a short term thing from the start. Have goals. Treat him like a business proposition, only with daily/weekly contact requirements etc… If the business is not performing, get rid of it.

I wish someone told me that years ago. I finally have my head screwed on, and making money out of it… and I have my own life… I have to get back to writing my blog as I am now 8 weeks overdue!

Make money and go. Don’t hang around.

]]> Comment on Ask The Hard Questions by Julietta du Monde http://nomoresugardaddies.wordpress.com/2009/03/15/ask-the-hard-questions/#comment-60 Julietta du Monde Sun, 05 Apr 2009 13:15:47 +0000 http://nomoresugardaddies.wordpress.com/?p=48#comment-60 Wow. Every time I try to break up with mine I realise I can't afford to without having a stable line of clients. My Mr. Honey (now I secretly call him Jack the John) is a bigger than life character, controlling, "Oh sure, we'll go to Paris" (and then conveniently has a soccer game to attend - when he takes me to London), says no one can afford me, practically bought me up for the last three and half years to be a high class whore... So, that is my ticket out... (except since the recession hit bad last year, he's been stingy) I can't believe I read what you wrote! It is funny and nice to have simple pleasures isn't it... lol! Mine are tea and seeing my mother! :) I still dream about a beautiful home in the English country side, with a herb garden and a big kitchen and a dog to go running with and cute nice neighbours... But I take everything for granted.. even the fact that Ferraro Rochers are still $2.50 for a little pack of three (probably for the last decade), and I buy two packs... I remember the days when I splurged on a packet and shared the other two with friends... Yes, commoners... Just a way to elevate themselves from people who don't like them. Jack the John has no friends. The last one owes him money... Problem is, I don't trust nice people, because I'll hurt their feelings the way I have been cultured by my sugar daddy... Sugar daddies are creeps with agenda to belittle you with 'love' unless they empower you. Mine has never empowered me. I was a graduate, I went across the country for a job I wanted (same as you).. Then he kept saying he loves me and wants me to travel, so I ate the persimmon seed to stay with exciting Hades... We were supposed to move in together.. two and half years later I find out he's married... Love Love Love... he convinces me as he chants Beatles songs..... Now I am more in control, but this lifestyle is my addiction. I just turned down a proposal of marriage to a wonderful guy, who has loved me for 10 years and waited for me. But I am too out of touch with people my own age, I don't understand them and I feel like a circus monkey telling them my tricks... Anyway, not my best writing above, so read my blog! Good luck with your unscheduled sex and your career.... Mine is gone... I'm back at being in admin... I lost the will to pursue my straight career a while back... Now all I see is sex on the horizon (scheduled, in a way!!!) Julietta du Monde Wow. Every time I try to break up with mine I realise I can’t afford to without having a stable line of clients. My Mr. Honey (now I secretly call him Jack the John) is a bigger than life character, controlling, “Oh sure, we’ll go to Paris” (and then conveniently has a soccer game to attend – when he takes me to London), says no one can afford me, practically bought me up for the last three and half years to be a high class whore… So, that is my ticket out… (except since the recession hit bad last year, he’s been stingy)

I can’t believe I read what you wrote! It is funny and nice to have simple pleasures isn’t it… lol! Mine are tea and seeing my mother! :) I still dream about a beautiful home in the English country side, with a herb garden and a big kitchen and a dog to go running with and cute nice neighbours…

But I take everything for granted.. even the fact that Ferraro Rochers are still $2.50 for a little pack of three (probably for the last decade), and I buy two packs… I remember the days when I splurged on a packet and shared the other two with friends…

Yes, commoners… Just a way to elevate themselves from people who don’t like them. Jack the John has no friends. The last one owes him money…

Problem is, I don’t trust nice people, because I’ll hurt their feelings the way I have been cultured by my sugar daddy… Sugar daddies are creeps with agenda to belittle you with ‘love’ unless they empower you. Mine has never empowered me.

I was a graduate, I went across the country for a job I wanted (same as you).. Then he kept saying he loves me and wants me to travel, so I ate the persimmon seed to stay with exciting Hades… We were supposed to move in together.. two and half years later I find out he’s married… Love Love Love… he convinces me as he chants Beatles songs…..

Now I am more in control, but this lifestyle is my addiction. I just turned down a proposal of marriage to a wonderful guy, who has loved me for 10 years and waited for me. But I am too out of touch with people my own age, I don’t understand them and I feel like a circus monkey telling them my tricks…

Anyway, not my best writing above, so read my blog!

Good luck with your unscheduled sex and your career…. Mine is gone… I’m back at being in admin… I lost the will to pursue my straight career a while back… Now all I see is sex on the horizon (scheduled, in a way!!!)

Julietta du Monde

]]> Comment on Who is Ms. Reformed SugarBaby? by dawn http://nomoresugardaddies.wordpress.com/about/#comment-59 dawn Sat, 21 Mar 2009 14:22:53 +0000 #comment-59 OMG... going through this right now.... story sort of different. had a lot - tons of money, big house, nice cars then all of a sudden my businesses crashed, husband cheated and now i am left with nothing. met a wealthy man 30 years my senior. has a son my age (can't believe i'm saying this) actually 1 year younger than me. i say to him " you are old enough to be my father" he says " i know but you are not my child". i like him, need the help to get on my feet... in a short time has already done sooo much and has offered to do so much more. am i crazy to think that this may possibly be an opportunity? i know there will be strings attached... or am i doomed from the start? just needed to get it off my chest. need "someone" to talk to. even if no one answers... OMG… going through this right now…. story sort of different.

had a lot – tons of money, big house, nice cars then all of a sudden my businesses crashed, husband cheated and now i am left with nothing.

met a wealthy man 30 years my senior. has a son my age (can’t believe i’m saying this) actually 1 year younger than me. i say to him ” you are old enough to be my father” he says ” i know but you are not my child”.

i like him, need the help to get on my feet… in a short time has already done sooo much and has offered to do so much more.

am i crazy to think that this may possibly be an opportunity?

i know there will be strings attached… or am i doomed from the start?

just needed to get it off my chest. need “someone” to talk to. even if no one answers…

]]> Comment on Ask The Hard Questions by Kendall http://nomoresugardaddies.wordpress.com/2009/03/15/ask-the-hard-questions/#comment-58 Kendall Mon, 16 Mar 2009 00:56:25 +0000 http://nomoresugardaddies.wordpress.com/?p=48#comment-58 Welcome back Ma'am. Because me and the girlfriend had both been burned before we were sure to ask all the questions we could and even after we had satisfactory honest answers, still took things very slowly. I think everyone has commitment issues, not just one age group or gender. Welcome back Ma’am. Because me and the girlfriend had both been burned before we were sure to ask all the questions we could and even after we had satisfactory honest answers, still took things very slowly.

I think everyone has commitment issues, not just one age group or gender.

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